Unpacking lessons learnt in decision making, leadership, relationships, health, community building and more
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Why I write?
Who am I and why did I start this blog? I am Demi, grew up in a remote tier 5 city in China with a simple upbringing. I thought I was born extraordinary when I was 8. In fact, I was so sure of it, that I wrote in my diary then (seems that I…
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Why the US has been and will continue winning over China?
As shocking as it may sound to those who know me well, I find it ludicrous to compare US and China, at all. It’s a question I get engaged in often – emotionally, I find myself unsurprisingly rooting for China on the sideline as a patriotic overseas Chinese. But rationally, I find this very notion…
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What do resilient people have in common?
Everyone may have different definitions of resilience. And I draw the line where someone not only keeps going in the face of adversity but moves forward in their own unyielding, authentic and compassionate ways. Keep going is not inherently difficult. Because as long as we breathe, we never stop living (though one can also debate…
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What would Lt. Nate Fick do?
They say when we get sick, we tend to desire what feels innately the most comfortable to us. Be it food for our body or our brain. I attest that is true. When I fell sick to some peculiar combo of virus and bacteria double whammy infection earlier this year, all I wanted was binging…
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Not all those who wander are lost
At the risk of sounding like a brag, I recently came back from an extended dive trip in the Maldives. There were so many fond memories, inspiring discussions with friends I love, and interesting souls I adored and connected with. One moment though that I will carry with me forever is this particular dive we…
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How timely is it to talk about time?
Warning: This piece is a very personal reflection on the concept of time and highly likely makes no sense whatsoever to you – my dearest readers. Therefore, I cannot caution you enough to think at least twice before committing five to ten minutes of your time going through my jubrish. It’s that time of the…
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One simple rule of leadership I struggle with
For the decade of learning how to lead, one simplest thing I have struggled with is to keep my mouth shut in group discussions. Or at least knowing how to keep my points of view to myself before everyone else speaks. Why does it even matter? As a social animal, we inherit evolutionary instincts that…
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One simple rule I learnt about communication
You can never overcommunicate. Never have I ever heard managers or teammates or boyfriends or girlfriends or parents ever complained about their teams, managers, partners or children overcommunicate. Think when was the last time you heard from anyone – “You know what I wish my manager does less? Communicate.” – though of course, one can…
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My journey (Part I)
Even though I didn’t get to be a US President and solve world peace, I did manage to live through some of my earlier dreams. Moving to Hong Kong for university was a defining dream came true and my very first pandora’s box open that unfolded some of the wildest ones later. Spending one’s most…